I don’t know about other countries, but here in Sofia, Bulgaria it’s bizarre how some clients have very unrealistic expectations about contacting an escort. They don’t seem to realize that they’re not actually paying to be with an attractive woman. They’re paying an escort simply, because nobody would readily have sex with them for free, either at this particular time or in general. Otherwise, we would’ve long gone out of business.
Why is it that we rarely meet young clients? They’d do it once just to see what it’s like to be with an escort, and then they forget about it for a good 10-15 years, because they can easily get women without having to spend tons of money, and many times without spending even a dime.
Why is it that escorts rarely meet very attractive clients, too? Because they’re hot, and women are throwing themselves at them left and right for free. It’s that simple.
Picky clients are a pain. Even women in normal life wouldn’t sleep with them to save a life, but for some reason, when they call an escort, they expect a Gisele Bundchen to show up at their hotel, no less.
Simply bringing to the appointment a nice body and friendly attitude is not enough. The poor escort also has to have a beautiful face, too. On top of that, she has to act like the smelly, middle-aged, average-looking guy in front of her is simply irresistible. Because these average guys also expect you to be very active and involved during the sex act, too.
It would be much better if such clients stopped looking for the G-spot in their wallets or even where it is actually physically located. Despite all evidence to the contrary, real attraction happens in a woman’s eyes and mind. If a man doesn’t have much to offer in the department, he should be thankful that he can at least afford to pay for company.
The irony is that if he keeps his expectations low, he might end up having one of the greatest times in his life. Clients may not realize it, but we, escorts, gorgeous looking or not so much, already give a lot more than we’d like. Having sex with one who pays, instead of with a guy of our choice is no fun.
They annoy us when asking for a head shot before meeting. We don’t want them to have our picture not because we’re ugly, and fear they’d find out sooner, when there’s a bigger chance of cancelling the appointment, but because we don’t want them to have evidence that we ever met. We’d like to have a normal life one day. We don’t want to have to worry that our secret life as an escort might be revealed someday.
If anything, it’s us who should start asking for head shots, because we’re tired of sleeping with overly demanding guys who clearly don’t look hot, and certainly didn’t look much hotter when they were younger either.
It’s not them who should be worried that they might not like the escort. We’re the ones who get shivers almost every single time we meet a client. We’re the ones who worry all the time how we’re going to get through yet another ugly, stinky fuck.