Good times and bad times


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I don’t know if I’ve just been lucky as an escort, but most of the time the whole process of finding clients has been quite a smooth one.

I’d post my ad for escort services online, and that’s pretty much it. Clients would start calling, and not just any clients, but exactly the kind I wanted – nice, well-educated, respectful, polite, and not expecting anything crazy in bed.

They’d call at just the right time, they’d give me plenty of room to get ready for the appointment, and they’d take care of it all in just one call or text. We’d meet, have an excellent time together, especially the nice conversation over drinks. Sometimes even the time spent in bed would be a good one.

Then they’d gladly pay me, and assure me with a big smile that they’re going to call me again next time they’re in town. And they do.

There are other times, however, when nothing goes right for weeks on end. Client after client would call at the wrong time when I’m busy, and don’t even hear my phone, as if they all agreed on some evil plot against me.

Then a wave of  misers would hit my inbox, writing weeks and even months in advance, whom, of course, I never get to meet, because they’re just fishing for the lowest price, and that’s exactly why they’re contacting me weeks ahead.

Then another bunch of bargain-hunters would come along, shamelessly lying that they visit Bulgaria quite often (as if that equals guaranteed appointments for me), and so I should give them a discount.

Some would try to shrink the appointment to 30 min., sometimes even 15 min., in the hopes to pay less, as if I’d leave the house for anything less than an hour, in most cases, at least two.

Then, as if all that’s not enough, here would come my favorite crowd, the fetishists, with their incessant demands for tall patent leather boots, or facesitting with changing into several differently textured garments – fishnet stockings, foe leather leggings, yoga pants, etc., or really nice, pedicured feet and lots and lots of footjob, or sexy slave/master play, as if there’s anything sexy in a passive guy, on all fours, waiting for you to come up with exciting orders, and pathetically gazing at you with adoration and gratitude.

The problem isn’t the fetish itself. It’s the never ending demands that put me off. As if I haven’t had enough demands dumped on my head by life itself. Why is it so hard for some people to stick to the escort services I offer, or contact someone who actually advertises what they’re looking for?

And they are very thorough in explaining what they want. As if I can’t wait to get my nice shoes soaked in some random guy’s saliva, who doesn’t even offer to pay extra for them, because the only thing I can do after that is throw them out, and get new ones.

Once, during a particularly slow month, I was so frustrated that I agreed to meet someone in a wheelchair, although I had no idea how that would go. The guy appeared very humble at first, I thought, probably because of his disability, but then turned into this demanding douche bag. And that was the end of my good-hearted intention to meet him despite everything.

Having all my dreams and hard work crashed in front of my eyes has made me no longer willing to give my best to anything I do, as my experience has shown me that that doesn’t guarantee success in life. Quite the opposite, apparently the less I gave, the more I got in return.

In such times (fortunately, doesn’t happen too often), with all the missed phone calls, misers, and fetish nutcases, I end up making next to nothing. Luckily, most of the time, there’s no shortage of normal clients, so I can make the most money with the least effort.


Escort, Sofia: My Client-screening Process



Working as an escort in Sofia, I’ve developed such a tough client-screening system that it’s amazing how anyone can pass the test at all. However, I’m very comfortable with the quality of clients who eventually make it through the hoops. It helps me stay sane until I find something better to do for a living.

First of all, I don’t take late-night calls. In my opinion, only someone who’s drunk or high would do that, and I have no desire to meet such clients.

Then, I’d look at the country code, and if it indicates a country that I don’t like, I don’t answer the call or text. By ”country that I don’t like” I mean nationalities who have proven themselves to be disrespectful to escorts and women in general, who essentially treat us as servants or like to bargain. I’m very culture-tolerant, but I’ve learned that stereotypes exist for a reason, for the most part, they’re true.

Then, if I do take the call, I pay attention to every little detail, from whether the client addresses me by name, to his overall attitude, to his openness to questions from me, to his level of English, and probably some other things which I can’t remember at the moment. Having sex with a total stranger is hard enough as it is, so I have to make sure that I’m going to be safe, and maybe even have a nice conversation during the appointment.

Where the client is staying is also important, because I wouldn’t go to cheap hotels in Sofia’s less safe areas. I also don’t go to areas that are too far from where I live.

Last but not least, I make sure he’s looking for escort services that I actually offer, because there’s no way I’d do anything outside my comfort zone (even if I was curious) with a stranger. So, no BDSM practices, no anal, no golden showers, etc. I’m clearly not a puritan but those are best done with people you know and trust, and feel comfortable with.


My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 




Escort, Sofia: What I Don’t Like About Being an Escort /Part 3/

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Working as an escort in Bulgaria is not easy. There’s huge competition, because of the widespread poverty in the country. Higher education couldn’t secure me a normal job, in fact, I’ve been rejected more times than I can remember exactly because of it. Crazy.

I thought I’d have it easier once I started working as an escort, but it turns out I have to go out of my way again to promote something that I’m not even proud of offering. As if the downside of being an escort aren’t enough, you have to put so much effort into advertising it.

Sometimes we have to deal with very difficult clients who waste our time with countless texts, digging for more and more information, only to go on to the next escort later. Well, I’ve come to realize that they’re usually the ones who have the least right to be overly demanding.

Escorts are humans, too, and we’re especially vulnerable. Believe it or not, the less you ask of us the more you’re going to get in return. We need to feel respected, we need to be treated well, we need to be regarded as individuals, not as a piece of meat or a servant.

It’s enough that life’s circumstances force us to do something we would otherwise never do. If it wasn’t for the money, we’d never end up in the same bed with most of our clients. And it wouldn’t be at all for moral reasons, but because attraction is based on things far more complex that have absolutely nothing to do with money or even how sexual we are.

Many customers believe we must enjoy sex more than normal women, because of the way the sex industry, movies and literature portray us. While it might be true for some escorts, most of us would rather be enjoying it with someone we’re genuinely attracted to, if we had a choice.


My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 




Girls, Sofia: How to Find Escort Girls in Sofia, Bulgaria




The best option to find escort girls in Bulgaria is, of course, to search online. You’ll find several international websites where Bulgarian girls have profiles in English, as well as some sites in Bulgarian. I’d suggest going for the international websites, as the Bulgarian escorts there are more likely to speak English.

You can filter by city as well as other criteria but the most important thing is to look for independent escorts, if you want to get exactly what you ordered. The escort profile usually mentions the word “independent” somewhere, and if not, you can always google the phone number to check if it appears on just this one profile or many.

The majority of girls are based in Sofia, where there’s more business, and naturally, higher-quality girls can be found there. Unfortunately most girls don’t travel, so if you happen to be in a city other than Sofia, you’d have a harder time finding a high-quality escort.

Also keep in mind that most girls do outcalls only which means you’d have to invite her to your hotel room or apartment or specially book one for the appointment.

Speaking of quality, Bulgaria isn’t the best place to meet exceptionally beautiful escort girls, although it is possible. If you happen to talk to a Bulgarian guy, he’ll most likely tell you very proudly that Bulgarian girls are beautiful, but that’s not really true. The majority might not have weight problems as is the case with women in Western European countries but Bulgarians usually fall behind on height and facial features.

That is not to say that there aren’t any stunning-looking girls in Bulgaria, especially in Sofia, just that they are harder to find. However, what most Bulgarian women lack in natural beauty, they make up for in taking good care of themselves, hair, make up, nails, as well as having a softer, very feminine personality.

If you’ve decided to meet a Bulgarian girl, you can also find escorts offline by asking taxi drivers or restaurant waiters but that’s risky as they can only suggest questionable establishments with low-quality girls (and the possibility of being robbed) unless you’re looking for cheaper options.


My name is Lily, and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

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Escort, Sofia: What I Don’t Like About Being an Escort /Part 2/

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It’s not OK for customers to not show up for their appointment with an escort. I don’t care if your coworker just won’t leave your hotel room or your business partners take forever to finish that dinner or drinks. Keep in mind that meeting an escort might feel like pleasure for you, but in reality, it’s business, since money is involved.

I don’t like it when a client doesn’t ask what’s allowed and what’s not, and just goes for it. Save your porn-like moves for your girlfriend or wife, they might appreciate it more. Your finger in my a*s doesn’t turn me on, it scares the daylights out of me, as it should you, because of the huge health risk involved.

I don’t like it when a customer informs reception that he’s expecting a visitor. I’ve had to come up with a whole routine in order to sneak into a hotel unnoticed, because I’m not proud of what I do for a living, and you’re spoiling the entire thing.

I don’t like it when a client doesn’t like condoms. There’s no chance in the world I would agree not to use one. Also, there’s very little an escort could do to make that scared creature come out of it’s hole once it’s in, so learn to love them. It’s the 21st century.

I don’t like customers who ask if this was my real name. What does it matter? Are you planning on marrying me? Are you suggesting I’m a dishonest person just because the name might be a made up one?

I’ve said it many times over, and I’ll say it again, most of us escorts are not proud of how we make money. We want to be able to have a normal life once we’re done with this, and we’ll do whatever it takes to mask our identity. Not to mention that many clients do the same thing, they also use fake names.


My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 



Hotels and Escort Service in Sofia



First, I must say that hotels, and service in general, are weird here in Bulgaria. There aren’t very many nice hotels in Sofia. Most of what we have here is outdated in terms of interior design, and ‘4-star’ looks more like ‘3-star’ in reality.

Staff members, although friendly, don’t speak English particularly well, and don’t really understand what it means to work in the service industry. You’d have to explain yourself over and over to get even a simple point across.

For example, you might call from your room to ask for some painkiller or a lighter, and instead of offering to run to the nearby pharmacy or shop to get it for you, the hotel staff will simply tell you that they don’t have what you’re asking for. Of course, there are exceptions, but they’re exactly that, exceptions.

As an escort, the thing that I dislike the most about some hotels in Sofia is the fact that they ask visitors to register at the reception desk with their ID, when a simple inquiry about the room you’re going to would be enough. Things get even worse when they not only expect you to register, but ask your client to also come down to the reception to pay an additional visitor fee.

Like either of us needs to feel more embarrassed than we already are. I’m not eager for the whole world to find out that I work as an escort (I don’t dress like one or wear heavy make up, but still that’s probably how most staff at hotels see me), and I’m sure my clients wouldn’t want their coworkers or boss to know how they spend their free time while abroad.

And it’s interesting how I can easily sneak in during the day, but at night people suddenly assume that only a prostitute would have a business entering into a hotel lobby. That’s why I decline late-night appointments unless we are to meet somewhere outside the hotel first, and then go in together. I really don’t need the judgemental looks and scornful smiles.

Here is a list of good and bad hotels in Sofia in terms of discreet service.

Good: Hilton, Holiday Inn, Balkan, Radisson, Park Inn, Bristol, Metropolitan, Anel, and many others.

Bad: Ramada, Grand Hotel Sofia, Arena di Serdica (all three of them make their guests pay additional fees, if they want to invite someone upstairs, and that isn’t done in a very discreet manner either, as they hold the visitor hostage at the reception until the hotel guest arrives downstairs to pay).

In-between: The Novotel and the Sense are somewhere in between. They don’t charge additional fees, but the lifts are card-operated, and the two options are to either meet outside first, and go in together, or they call you to ask if you’re expecting a visitor, and then let her in.


My name is Lily, and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

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Escorts, Sofia: Dos and Don’ts When Contacting an Escort /Part 2/



Please do understand that an escort is not your servant no matter how much you’d like it to be that way. Yes, we need you as a client, but we know very well that you need our company (sex) even more than we want your money. So naturally, we’re going to use that to our advantage.

If you want to have a pleasant experience with your escort, better learn to play by some rules.

Be respectful 

Please don’t use vulgar language as I may work as an escort, but I also have a university degree, and this isn’t exactly my dream job and what I expected my life to turn out to be like. This is just work, and not who I am. Disrespectful attitude and language are only going to result in getting no response from me at all.

Make me feel safe

I’m very cautious when meeting with customers, and I want to know a little bit more about them when they first contact me. You don’t have to tell me your life story for sure, but things like age, nationality and occupation give me an idea of what to expect. Just the fact that you’re open to sharing some personal information puts me at ease.

Don’t bargain

My prices are what they are for very good reasons, and they’re non-negotiable. If you don’t want to spend that amount, just don’t call me. There’s plenty of other girls out there. Did you bargain with the receptionist when you checked in at the hotel?

I’m going to feel offended. You apparently liked my profile (since it made you contact me), but you still think you shouldn’t have to pay the full price. It just makes me wonder whether you’re trying to get an elite escort for less money or you think you’re still too good for me, and I should be paying you instead.

While speaking of price, it’s also interesting how some clients think they should only be paying for sex and not for my company. They make ridiculous requests to join them for dinner or drinks first, but only pay for the time between the sheets later. I don’t want to even begin to explain what’s wrong with that. Just don’t do it. It’s wrong.

Don’t ask dumb questions 

I don’t understand it when some clients ask me the same questions that I’ve already answered on my profile and ad. Did they just look at my picture, without reading the text, and impulsively decided to call (hard to believe)? Or they made a list with only the names and numbers of potential interests, and started doing phone interviews later? Either way, that’s not professional, and is simply going to put me off.


My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site.