Escort, Sofia: What I Don’t Like About Being an Escort /Part 2/

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It’s not OK for customers to not show up for their appointment with an escort. I don’t care if your coworker just won’t leave your hotel room or your business partners take forever to finish that dinner or drinks. Keep in mind that meeting an escort might feel like pleasure for you, but in reality, it’s business, since money is involved.

I don’t like it when a client doesn’t ask what’s allowed and what’s not, and just goes for it. Save your porn-like moves for your girlfriend or wife, they might appreciate it more. Your finger in my a*s doesn’t turn me on, it scares the daylights out of me, as it should you, because of the huge health risk involved.

I don’t like it when a customer informs reception that he’s expecting a visitor. I’ve had to come up with a whole routine in order to sneak into a hotel unnoticed, because I’m not proud of what I do for a living, and you’re spoiling the entire thing.

I don’t like it when a client doesn’t like condoms. There’s no chance in the world I would agree not to use one. Also, there’s very little an escort could do to make that scared creature come out of it’s hole once it’s in, so learn to love them. It’s the 21st century.

I don’t like customers who ask if this was my real name. What does it matter? Are you planning on marrying me? Are you suggesting I’m a dishonest person just because the name might be a made up one?

I’ve said it many times over, and I’ll say it again, most of us escorts are not proud of how we make money. We want to be able to have a normal life once we’re done with this, and we’ll do whatever it takes to mask our identity. Not to mention that many clients do the same thing, they also use fake names.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me and my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

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Escort, Sofia: What I Don’t Like About Being an Escort /Part 1/

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I’m an independent escort in Sofia, which means that I work for myself, not an agency. I don’t sit in an office somewhere all night, all dressed up, and ready to rush to the next appointment.

I don’t like it when customers call late at night. I go about my business during the day, and then, if I didn’t get any calls before 10:30 pm, I go to bed. There’s nothing in the world that is going to make me come out of bed once I’m in, so make sure you call before that.

I don’t know why some men would think that meeting an escort is something that is meant to happen late at night (the media and movies are to blame, I guess), when no person is in the best of shapes. Not the escort, and certainly not the client, usually drunk from a long night on the town. Unless they don’t mind paying for a lousy quickie, that they’re not even going to remember the next day.

Late-night sex is had with wives or girlfriends, not escorts. You can just reach over, and be at it the next moment. Talking on the phone to arrange the whole thing, getting out of bed, taking a shower, putting make up on, getting dressed, calling a cab, and getting to your hotel takes me at least an hour. If you called at 2 am, even if I was willing to meet, by the time I got there, you’re going to fall asleep or not be in the mood anymore.

I don’t like arrogant clients who think they are such a great catch that no escort is good enough for them. I don’t know about other escorts, but I’m a very attractive woman. I’ve been doing this for 4 years, and I’m yet to meet a customer who is better looking that me. The reality is, the majority of customers are middle-aged and average-looking, even if they believe otherwise, so no reason to be overly paranoid.

I also don’t like clients who treat escorts like servants. This may sound shocking, but you’re the one who needs to convince me more than I need to convince you. I’m not thrilled by the thought of sleeping with yet another stranger, whom I probably would have never found attractive, if it wasn’t for the money. If you’re nice, I’ll be nicer.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me and my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

 

 

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Escort, Sofia: What I Like About Being an Escort

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Besides the good money that I make as an escort, I actually enjoy meeting most of my customers. I get to hear about other countries, customs, culture, life. For many reasons, I dislike Bulgaria and people here so much, that a conversation about almost any other culture is like a breath of fresh air. Naturally, I don’t work with Bulgarian clients.

I’m so fed up with the poverty that surrounds us here in Bulgaria, both the material and the intellectual kind. That’s why I actually look forward to meeting a new customer. I know that I’ll get to spend a few hours in a nice hotel room, and maybe even have a couple of drinks of my favorite cocktail down at the lobby bar or dinner at the restaurant on the top floor.

I know that we’re going to talk about travel, good food, best cities to visit around the world, what’s popular in music and fashion in the top countries in Europe, and of course, one of my most favorite topics, business. I’m grateful, because I can’t find that when I talk to Bulgarians. It’s not that they don’t travel. It’s just that that doesn’t seem to do any good for them.

I know that I’ll be treated with respect. I’ll be addressed by name, and a proper eye contact will be maintained. I’ll be listened to with a genuine interest, and my opinions will be respected. I’ll even be asked for permission on things. Sometimes I’d be offered help with a project or if I ever decided to move abroad (which I will do). Unfortunately, all of the above is extremely rare in our Bulgarian culture.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me and my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

 

 

 

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Escort, Sofia: Why I Started Working as an Escort

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I never planned to work as an escort. I was strong-willed and very independent as a child. I was a straight A student. I went on to graduate from a top university in Sofia, Bulgaria. I dreamed of becoming wildly successful, when I didn’t even know what being successful actually meant.

I never wanted to work for other people, but I failed at my first attempts at having my own business, so I had to finally start looking for a job. I did a lot of job-hopping (although I didn’t want to), always ending up at mediocre jobs with meager wages and no opportunities for growth.

I always felt out-of-place, never liked neither the industry nor my job responsibilities, nor any of my bosses.

And the feelings were mutual, my bosses were rarely fond of me, too. I wasn’t a yes-woman. I used my mind to actually think, and apparently that was a no-no at their company. Most of the time, they would eventually either fire me or force me to leave.

I was miserable whenever I had a job, but I felt even more so when I had to go to job interviews. When the economy is bad, and there are far more candidates than open positions, the chances that you’re going to be hired are very slim.

I started to feel sick and tired of being told ‘no’. And, most of the time, I would have to hear it from people who were far less educated than me. I was never enough, not right for the position, not enough experience, not the right experience, overqualified, not the right qualifications…

I got to a point where nothing seemed to work. I was so frustrated, that suddenly the thought of sleeping with complete strangers for money looked more appealing to me than what I had known until then. If people (including my own family) had pretended my whole life to not see my intellectual capabilities, they were always eager to point out my physical attractiveness.

I had no choice but to start using to my advantage the only thing that people apparently assigned high value to. I probably should have gotten a clue years ago when I was fired from my very first job, because I refused to sleep with my boss.

And so I went online, did some research, wrote my escort ad and profile, and have been working as an independent escort in Sofia for the past few years. While I’m not trying to glorify this in any way, I have to admit that, ironically, for the first time, I felt accepted and respected for everything that I am, not just my looks. Not to mention that, for the first time, I was also being paid what I actually deserved.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me and my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

 

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Hotels and Escort Service in Sofia

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First, I must say that hotels, and service in general, are weird here in Bulgaria. There aren’t very many nice hotels in Sofia. Most of what we have here is outdated in terms of interior design, and ‘4-star’ looks more like ‘3-star’ in reality.

Staff members, although friendly, don’t speak English particularly well, and don’t really understand what it means to work in the service industry. You’d have to explain yourself over and over to get even a simple point across.

For example, you might call from your room to ask for some painkiller or a lighter, and instead of offering to run to the nearby pharmacy or shop to get it for you, the hotel staff will simply tell you that they don’t have what you’re asking for. Of course, there are exceptions, but they’re exactly that, exceptions.

As an escort, the thing that I dislike the most about some hotels in Sofia is the fact that they ask visitors to register at the reception desk with their ID, when a simple inquiry about the room you’re going to would be enough. Things get even worse when they not only expect you to register, but ask your client to also come down to the reception to pay an additional visitor fee.

Like either of us needs to feel more embarrassed than we already are. I’m not eager for the whole world to find out that I work as an escort (I don’t dress like one or wear heavy make up, but still that’s probably how most staff at hotels see me), and I’m sure my clients wouldn’t want their coworkers or boss to know how they spend their free time while abroad.

And it’s interesting how I can easily sneak in during the day, but at night people suddenly assume that only a prostitute would have a business entering into a hotel lobby. That’s why I decline late-night appointments unless we are to meet somewhere outside the hotel first, and then go in together. I really don’t need the judgemental looks and scornful smiles.

Here is a list of good and bad hotels in Sofia in terms of discreet service.

Good: Hilton, Holiday Inn, Balkan, Intercontinental, Park Inn, Bristol, Metropolitan, Anel, and many others.

Bad: Ramada, Grand Hotel Sofia, Arena di Serdica (all three of them make their guests pay additional fees, if they want to invite someone upstairs, and that isn’t done in a very discreet manner either, as they hold the visitor hostage at the reception until the hotel guest arrives downstairs to pay).

In-between: The Novotel and the Sense are somewhere in between. They don’t charge additional fees, but the lifts are card-operated, and the two options are to either meet outside first, and go in together, or they call you to ask if you’re expecting a visitor, and then let her in.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me and my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

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Escorts, Sofia: Dos and Don’ts When Contacting an Escort /Part 2/

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Please do understand that an escort is not your servant no matter how much you’d like it to be that way. Yes, we need you as a client, but we know very well that you need our company (sex) even more than we want your money. So naturally, we’re going to use that to our advantage.

If you want to have a pleasant experience with your escort, better learn to play by some rules.

Be respectful 

Please don’t use vulgar language as I may work as an escort, but I also have a university degree, and this isn’t exactly my dream job and what I expected my life to turn out to be like. This is just work, and not who I am. Disrespectful attitude and language are only going to result in getting no response from me at all.

Make me feel safe

I’m very cautious when meeting with customers, and I want to know a little bit more about them when they first contact me. You don’t have to tell me your life story for sure, but things like age, nationality and occupation give me an idea of what to expect. Just the fact that you’re open to sharing some personal information puts me at ease.

Don’t bargain

My prices are what they are for very good reasons, and they’re non-negotiable. If you don’t want to spend that amount, just don’t call me. There’s plenty of other girls out there. Did you bargain with the receptionist when you checked in at the hotel?

I’m going to feel offended. You apparently liked my profile (since it made you contact me), but you still think you shouldn’t have to pay the full price. It just makes me wonder whether you’re trying to get an elite escort for less money or you think you’re still too good for me, and I should be paying you instead.

While speaking of price, it’s also interesting how some clients think they should only be paying for sex and not for my company. They make ridiculous requests to join them for dinner or drinks first, but only pay for the time between the sheets later. I don’t want to even begin to explain what’s wrong with that. Just don’t do it. It’s wrong.

Don’t ask dumb questions 

I don’t understand it when some clients ask me the same questions that I’ve already answered on my profile and ad. Did they just look at my picture, without reading the text, and impulsively decided to call (hard to believe)? Or they made a list with only the names and numbers of potential interests, and started doing phone interviews later? Either way, that’s not professional, and is simply going to put me off.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me and my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

 

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Escorts, Sofia: Dos and Don’ts When Contacting an Escort /Part 1/

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Please do understand that an escort is not your servant no matter how much you’d like it to be that way. Yes, we need you as a client, but we know very well that you need our company (sex) even more than we want your money. So naturally, we’re going to use that to our advantage.

If you want to have a pleasant experience with your escort, better learn to play by some rules.

Don’t contact escorts late at night or at the last minute.

If you call me late, chances are I’m already at an appointment with some client or in my bed … sleeping. Escorts like to go to bed at a decent hour, too, because, well, we’re humans. Also, I don’t walk around all dressed up and ready to rush to the next appointment.

I have a life, and friends, and projects that I work on (yes, real work projects), so I’m not available 24/7. Certainly not at the last minute nor at 3 in the morning. I’m an independent escort. There’s no one to boss me around, and make me get out of bed when I don’t want to. Besides, from what I’ve learned working with customers, you’d want a girl who is enthusiastic and present, and I doubt that you can squeeze much enthusiasm and presence out of a sleepy person.

Don’t use email to contact us when you should be calling or texting instead 

If you want to meet me in an hour or two, you need a quick response from me, and that is accomplished by texting or calling, not emailing. Clients who email aren’t top-priority for me, because it just shows a low interest level on their part.

They are either indifferent to the kind of girl they’ll meet, so they just send the same email to more than one escort to make sure they catch a fish, any fish, or they still aren’t sure if they should be doing this at all.

Some of them wonder if escort service is even worth the money. Some want to try something out of the ordinary, but fear their own sexual inclinations. Others are still debating if cheating on their wife or girlfriend is a good idea. Please resolve these moral dilemmas on your own before contacting me, as I only care about your not wasting my time.

If you still insist on contacting me via email, don’t do it weeks or many times even months in advance, either. It just means that you’re fishing for a best offer, an escort who preferably meets all of your demands, and for as little money as possible on top of that.

I’m not cheap (as my prices clearly suggest), and, again, I don’t want you to waste my time. I’ve stopped answering such emails a long time ago.

Just like you, I want you to be 100 percent sure that you WANT to meet me and that you want to meet ME, and not whomever responds first or is the cheapest.

Keep it short and sweet

But not too short and not too sweet. Don’t send one-word texts like ‘Hey’ or ‘Hello’ as that only means you’re probably going to turn out to be a time-waster. Why? First of all, because I don’t want to spend too much time texting back and forth sweet nothings, when it’s strictly business.

Second, clients who start a conversation like that usually have an agenda. They are either not sure yet, or want to try to negotiate a lower price, or foolishly hope that, by calling an escort, they can end up finding a girlfriend instead.

The latter is rather interesting, and deserves a whole new post sometime soon. They try to charm their way in through sweet talk, but with me it never works.

There’s no need to overdo it as I’m still not going to discount my services, and I’m not interested in dating a client either, at least, not one I’ve never met in person.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me and my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

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