Working as an escort in Sofia, I’ve developed such a tough client-screening system that it’s amazing how anyone can pass the test at all. However, I’m very comfortable with the quality of clients who eventually make it through the hoops. It helps me stay sane until I find something better to do for a living.
First of all, I don’t take late-night calls. In my opinion, only someone who’s drunk or high would do that, and I have no desire to meet such clients.
Then, I’d look at the country code, and if it indicates a country that I don’t like, I don’t answer the call or text. By ”country that I don’t like” I mean nationalities who have proven themselves to be disrespectful to escorts and women in general, who essentially treat us as servants or like to bargain. I’m very culture-tolerant, but I’ve learned that stereotypes exist for a reason, for the most part, they’re true.
Then, if I do take the call, I pay attention to every little detail, from whether the client addresses me by name, to his overall attitude, to his openness to questions from me, to his level of English, and probably some other things which I can’t remember at the moment. Having sex with a total stranger is hard enough as it is, so I have to make sure that I’m going to be safe, and maybe even have a nice conversation during the appointment.
Where the client is staying is also important, because I wouldn’t go to cheap hotels in Sofia’s less safe areas. I also don’t go to areas that are too far from where I live.
Last but not least, I make sure he’s looking for escort services that I actually offer, because there’s no way I’d do anything outside my comfort zone (even if I was curious) with a stranger. So, no BDSM practices, no anal, no golden showers, etc. I’m clearly not a puritan but those are best done with people you know and trust, and feel comfortable with.
My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site.