Escort, Sofia: My Client-screening Process

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Working as an escort in Sofia, I’ve developed such a tough client-screening system that it’s amazing how anyone can pass the test at all. However, I’m very comfortable with the quality of clients who eventually make it through the hoops. It helps me stay sane and keep doing this until I find something better to do for a living.

First of all, I absolutely don’t take late-night calls. In my opinion, only someone who’s drunk or high would do that, and I have no desire to meet such clients.

Then, I’d look at the country code, and if it indicates a country that I don’t like, I don’t answer the call or text. By ”country that I don’t like” I mean nationalities who have proven themselves to be disrespectful to escorts and women in general, who essentially treat us as servants or like to bargain. I’m very tolerant, but I’ve learned that stereotypes exist for a reason, for the most part, they’re true.

Then, if I do take the call, I pay attention to every little detail, from whether the client addresses me by my name, to his overall attitude, to his openness to questions from me, to his level of English, and probably some other things which I can’t remember at the moment. Having sex with a total stranger is hard enough as it is, so I have to make sure that I’m going to be safe and maybe even have a nice conversation during the appointment.

Where the client is staying is also important, because I wouldn’t go to cheap hotels in Sofia’s less safe areas. I also don’t go to areas that are too far from where I live.

Last but not least, I make sure he’s looking for escort services that I actually offer, because there’s no way I’d do anything outside my comfort zone (even if I was curious) with a stranger. So, no BDSM practices, no threesomes, no golden showers, etc. I’m clearly not a puritan but those are best done with people you know and trust, and feel comfortable with.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

 

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Hotels in Sofia: How an escort sneaks in

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Quite a few 4/5-star hotels in Sofia aren’t very escort-friendly. Apparently they don’t understand that they’re actually losing business by making their guests pay, if they wanted to have a visitor. Who would want to risk being seen by coworkers, business partners, a boss or even other hotel guests at the reception with a woman who’s clearly neither their wife nor just a friend?

I wonder if such hotels would charge a guest if they saw him entering with another male or they’d just assume he must be a business partner, and leave them alone? I’m uncomfortable enough that I have to make money as an escort. I really don’t need the extra drama of having to register with my ID and hang around totally embarrassed while the client is paying the additional fee, so I’ve stopped meeting clients who happen to be staying at one of these hotels.

Still, the uncomfortable feeling is here even when I go to the ones that don’t have such strict policies. Over time, I’ve developed a whole routine just so I can sneak in unnoticed. Sofia is a small city. You never know which friend or friend of a friend you’re going to run into, so I have to be extra careful.

The preparation starts at home. I make sure that my make up is as light as possible even when I’m in the mood for wearing something a little heavier. My favorite color is black, and most of my clothes are black, but sometimes I get tired, and love to have some brighter colors on me. However, I deliberately wear all-black to most of my appointments, because that way I’m less noticeable.

When I enter the hotel, I make sure that I avoid eye contact with the staff at the reception even if my face is directed at them, because it’s absolutely true that eyes are the window to the soul. A face is better remembered if you looked into the person’s eyes. So I make sure I don’t allow them to look into my eyes. I sometimes pretend to look at my phone but, of course, the best case is when there’s guests checking in and so the staff is busy or the lobby is crowded.

It’s funny how sometimes hotel employees mistake me for a foreigner, because they greet me in English. It must be the way I dress and carry myself that confuses them, and I’m actually grateful that I can pass for a guest. Also, I don’t regard Bulgarians very highly, although I am one, too, so it’s nice to distance myself from them at least in some ways.

Sometimes I’d ask the client to meet me outside first, especially if it’s late, so we can go in together, and spare me the suspicious looks or uncomfortable questions, because no matter how experienced I am, I can’t always avoid disaster. If nothing else works, I would sometimes pretend I’m going to the bathroom at the lobby, and then sneak in through a back door or staff elevator.

You can now imagine the great lengths an escort has to go to but as they say, no pain no gain, unfortunately.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

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Escort, Sofia: What I Don’t Like About Being an Escort /Part 3/

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Working as an escort in Bulgaria is not easy as there’s huge competition, because of the widespread poverty in this country. Higher education couldn’t secure me a normal job, in fact, I’ve been rejected more times than I can remember exactly because of it. Crazy.

I thought I’d have it easier once I started working as an escort but it turns out I have to go out of my way again to promote something that I’m not at all proud of offering. The drawbacks of being an escort are already so many that it feels like going through hell when you have to put so much effort into advertising it.

Sometimes we have to deal with very suspicious, difficult clients who waste our time with countless texts drilling for more and more information only to go on to the next escort later. Well, suspicion breads suspicion as I’ve come to realize that they’re usually the ones who have the least right to be overly demanding.

Escorts are humans, too, and they’re especially vulnerable. Believe it or not, the less you ask for the more you’re going to get from us in return. We need to feel respected, we need to be treated well, we need to be regarded as individuals, not as a soulless piece of meat or a servant.

It’s enough that life’s circumstances force us to be doing something we would otherwise never do. If it wasn’t for the money, we’d never end up in the same bed with most of our clients. And it wouldn’t be at all for moral reasons, but because attraction is based on things far more complex that have absolutely nothing to do with money or even how sexual we are.

Many customers believe we must enjoy sex much more than normal women, because of the way the sex industry, and movies and literature portray us. While it might be true for some escorts, most of us would rather be enjoying it with someone we’re genuinely attracted to, if we had a choice.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

 

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Girls, Sofia: How to Find Escort Girls in Sofia, Bulgaria

 

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The best option to find escort girls in Bulgaria is, of course, to search on-line. You’ll find several international websites where Bulgarian girls have profiles in English, as well as some sites in Bulgarian. I’d suggest going for the international websites, as the Bulgarian escorts there are more likely to speak English.

You can filter by city as well as other criteria but the most important thing is to look for independent escorts rather than agencies, if you want to get exactly what you ordered. The escort profiles usually mention the word “independent” somewhere, and if not, you can always ask when calling just to make sure.

The majority of girls are based in Sofia, where there’s more business, and naturally, higher-quality girls can be found there. Unfortunately most girls don’t travel, so if you happen to be in a city other than Sofia, you’d have a harder time finding a high-quality escort.

Also keep in mind that most girls do outcalls only which means you’d have to invite her to your hotel room or apartment or specially book one for the appointment.

Speaking of quality, Bulgaria isn’t the best place to easily meet exceptionally beautiful escort girls, although it is possible. It’s an absolute myth that Bulgarian women are very beautiful. The majority might not have weight problems as is the case with women in Western European countries but Bulgarians usually fall behind on height and facial features.

That is not to say that there aren’t any stunning-looking girls in Bulgaria, especially in Sofia, just that they are harder to find. What most Bulgarian women lack in natural beauty, they make up for in taking good care of themselves, hair, make up, nails, dressing as well as having a softer, feminine personality.

If you’ve decided to meet a Bulgarian girl, you can also find escorts offline by asking taxi drivers or restaurant waiters but that’s risky as they can only suggest questionable establishments with low-quality girls (and the possibility of being robbed) unless you’re looking for cheaper options.

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My name is Lily, and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

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Escort, Sofia: What I Don’t Like About Being an Escort /Part 2/

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It’s not OK for customers to not show up for their appointment with an escort. I don’t care if your coworker just won’t leave your hotel room or your business partners take forever to finish that dinner or drinks. Keep in mind that meeting an escort might feel like pleasure for you, but in reality, it’s business, since money is involved.

I don’t like it when a client doesn’t ask what’s allowed and what’s not, and just goes for it. Save your port-like moves for your girlfriend or wife, they might appreciate it more. Your finger in my a*s doesn’t turn me on, it scares the daylights out of me, as it should you, because of the huge health risk involved.

I don’t like it when a customer informs reception that he’s expecting a visitor. I’ve had to come up with a whole routine in order to sneak into a hotel unnoticed, because I’m not exactly proud of what I do for a living, and you’re spoiling the whole thing.

I don’t like it when a client doesn’t like condoms. This is the 21st century, there’s no chance I would agree not to use one, and there’s very little an escort could do to make that scared creature come out of it’s hole once again, so learn to love them.

I don’t like customers who ask if this is my real name. What does it matter? Are you planning on marrying me? Are you suggesting I’m a dishonest person just because the name might be a made up one? I’ve said it many times over, and I’ll say it again, most of us escorts are not proud of how we make money. We want to be able to have a normal life once we’re done with this, and we’ll do whatever it takes to mask our identity.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

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Escort, Sofia: What I Don’t Like About Being an Escort /Part 1/

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I’m an independent escort in Sofia which means that I work for myself, not an agency. I don’t sit in an office somewhere all night all dressed up, and ready to rush to the next appointment.

I don’t like it when customers call late at night. I go about my business during the day, and then, if I didn’t get any calls before 10:30 pm, I go to bed. There’s nothing in the world that is going to make me come out of bed once I’m in, because I work for myself, so make sure you call before that.

Seriously, I don’t know why some men would think that meeting with an escort is something that is meant to happen late at night (the media and movies are to blame, I guess), when no person is in the best of shapes, not the escort, and certainly not the client, usually drunk or at least tired from a long night on the town. Unless they don’t mind paying for a lousy quickie that they’re not going to enjoy or remember the next day.

Late-night sex is done with wives or girlfriends, because you can just reach and be at it the next moment, not with escorts. Talking on the phone to arrange the whole thing, getting out of bed, taking a shower, putting on make up, getting dressed, calling a cab, and getting to your hotel takes me at least an hour. If you called at 2 am, even if I was willing to meet, by the time I got there, you’re going to be asleep or not in the mood anymore.

I don’t like arrogant clients who think they are such a catch that no escort is good enough for them. I don’t know about other escorts but I’m a very attractive woman. I’ve been doing this for 4 years, and I’m yet to meet a customer who is better looking that me. No offence but I’m young and pretty, and the reality is the majority of customers are middle-aged and average-looking even if they believe otherwise.

I also don’t like clients who treat escorts like servants. This may be shocking but you’re the one who needs to convince me to meet with you more than I need to convince you, because I’m not exactly thrilled at the thought of sleeping with yet another stranger whom I probably would have never found attractive enough to sleep with, if it wasn’t for the money. If you’re nice, I’ll be nicer.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

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Escort, Sofia: What I Like About Being an Escort

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Besides the good money that I make as an escort, I actually enjoy meeting customers. I get to hear about other countries, customs, culture, life. For many reasons, I dislike Bulgaria and people here so much, that a conversation about almost any other culture is like a breath of fresh air for me. Naturally, I don’t work with Bulgarian clients.

I’m so fed up with the poverty that surrounds us here in Bulgaria, both the material and the intellectual kind. That’s why I actually look forward to meeting a new customer. I know that I’ll get to spend a few hours in a nice hotel room, and maybe even have a couple of drinks of my favorite cocktail down at the lobby bar or a light dinner at the restaurant on the top floor.

I know that we’re going to talk about travel, good food, the best cities to visit around the world, what’s popular in music and fashion in the top countries in Europe, and of course, one of my most favorite topics, business. I’m grateful, because I can’t find that when I talk to Bulgarians. It’s not that they don’t travel. It’s just that that doesn’t seem to do any good for them.

I know that I’ll be treated with respect. I’ll be addressed by my name and a proper eye contact will be maintained. I’ll be listened to with a genuine interest and my opinions will be respected. I’ll even be asked for permission on things. Sometimes I’d even be offered help with a project or if I ever decided to move abroad. Unfortunately all of the above is extremely rare in our Bulgarian culture.

 

My name is Lily and I’m an independent escort in Sofia, Bulgaria. For more information about me, my services, prices and how to get in touch, please visit the other pages on my site. 

 

 

 

 

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